How is it that some people will believe something that is so far off the mark it makes them look crazy?
They can talk themselves into believing something they KNOW is not true just because it makes them feel better about themselves and their messed up logic?
Normally it wouldn't bother me but it's on my heart tonight because it's effecting someone I care about... Someone who has tried so hard to do the right thing and has only been punished for their efforts...
Well, guess what! His heart is breaking because of the mess THEY'VE made...
It's just so easy for them to make him the bad guy when in reality, it's them who have done everything in their power to make him LOOK like the bad guy... He's the GOOD guy here!!! He's done every thing he could to do the right thing.... But nothing is ever good enough for them....
Just so frustrated with them right now!!!
Friday, September 14, 2012
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Zoo Party
I just ordered the cake for Kayden's birthday party this weekend... she is super excited about her party at the Zoo... according to one of her teachers, when she talks about it, her face lights up and she talks all fast and excited... :-)
I did a big party for her first and a small family party for her second... this year we're doing another big one... I don't think I could handle a big one every year...
We got portraits taken recently:
My little booger is growing up so fast....
I did a big party for her first and a small family party for her second... this year we're doing another big one... I don't think I could handle a big one every year...
We got portraits taken recently:
My little booger is growing up so fast....
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Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Apricots
My parents keep a stash of dried apricots on their counter... the primary use is dog treats, but my dad and my child eat them, too...
Over the weekend, we had lunch at my folks' house and after we ate, Kayden asked my dad for an apricot...
Kayden: Can I have a apricot, please, Papa?
Grandpa: Only if I can get a kiss....
Kayden: (turning to me) Mommy, can I please have a apricot?
(The whole table bursts out laughing.)
Mommy: Give your grandpa a kiss...
Kayden: (obediently kisses Grandpa) Can I have 2 apricots, now?
(More laughter...)
She is SO stinkin' smart!
(We ARE working on proper English, BTW: "MAY I please..." and "AN apricot..." but we still have some work to do...)
Over the weekend, we had lunch at my folks' house and after we ate, Kayden asked my dad for an apricot...
Kayden: Can I have a apricot, please, Papa?
Grandpa: Only if I can get a kiss....
Kayden: (turning to me) Mommy, can I please have a apricot?
(The whole table bursts out laughing.)
Mommy: Give your grandpa a kiss...
Kayden: (obediently kisses Grandpa) Can I have 2 apricots, now?
(More laughter...)
She is SO stinkin' smart!
(We ARE working on proper English, BTW: "MAY I please..." and "AN apricot..." but we still have some work to do...)
Saturday, September 1, 2012
New Love?
Shortly after I filed for divorce, I requested several friends on Facebook who I had previously removed or denied out of respect for my husband...
With the ones who accepted, I exchanged the typical pleasantries and complements on their children, etc and then they faded into the FB background, only to pop up sporadically with random updates and/or pictures.
One of those friends was Mike... It just so happened that he was in the middle of some legal issues, too, so we vented our legal frustrations to each other and renewed a friendship that had been dormant since we were 14 years old...
As time passed, it was clear that our feelings for each other were starting to deepen past the friendship point. My divorce was not yet final so I made it very clear to him that if at any point before the judge signed the papers my husband had a change of heart and chose to do the things necessary to repair our broken marriage, our friendship would have to end as my priority was to my family first. He was very understanding and incredibly supportive... he chose to stick it out, knowing that the possibility of never speaking to me again was there...
The divorce did go through and he was there to comfort me and help me heal in any way I needed... we talked for hours about our past relationships and things we liked and didn't like... we discussed our mistakes and short-comings and talked about how we would do things differently if we were put in the same position again... we talked about our plans and dreams for the future and about our goals and things we'd like to see happen for our children (he has a daughter as well)...
And it just keeps getting better... He has become my best friend... there are no secrets or hidden feelings... we never argue, but discuss our differences of opinion with open-minded respect... we can agree to disagree and still respect each other when we don't see eye to eye... We are a real team when it comes to anything, from making dinner, to cleaning up after... He'll play with Kayden or read her a book so I can chat with a friend and she just adores him... I think his daughter, Kelsey, is great, and he happily steps back and lets me help with the teenage girly things with her...
It's funny how life plays out sometimes... I never, in a million years, thought I'd be dating my 8th grade boyfriend again... but I am excited and optimistic about what the future has in store for us...
With the ones who accepted, I exchanged the typical pleasantries and complements on their children, etc and then they faded into the FB background, only to pop up sporadically with random updates and/or pictures.
One of those friends was Mike... It just so happened that he was in the middle of some legal issues, too, so we vented our legal frustrations to each other and renewed a friendship that had been dormant since we were 14 years old...
As time passed, it was clear that our feelings for each other were starting to deepen past the friendship point. My divorce was not yet final so I made it very clear to him that if at any point before the judge signed the papers my husband had a change of heart and chose to do the things necessary to repair our broken marriage, our friendship would have to end as my priority was to my family first. He was very understanding and incredibly supportive... he chose to stick it out, knowing that the possibility of never speaking to me again was there...
The divorce did go through and he was there to comfort me and help me heal in any way I needed... we talked for hours about our past relationships and things we liked and didn't like... we discussed our mistakes and short-comings and talked about how we would do things differently if we were put in the same position again... we talked about our plans and dreams for the future and about our goals and things we'd like to see happen for our children (he has a daughter as well)...
And it just keeps getting better... He has become my best friend... there are no secrets or hidden feelings... we never argue, but discuss our differences of opinion with open-minded respect... we can agree to disagree and still respect each other when we don't see eye to eye... We are a real team when it comes to anything, from making dinner, to cleaning up after... He'll play with Kayden or read her a book so I can chat with a friend and she just adores him... I think his daughter, Kelsey, is great, and he happily steps back and lets me help with the teenage girly things with her...
It's funny how life plays out sometimes... I never, in a million years, thought I'd be dating my 8th grade boyfriend again... but I am excited and optimistic about what the future has in store for us...
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